Analyze the possible cause of conflict?

Nowadays, we can find conflict everywhere and every time. So, we must avoid conflict happen and we must learn how to deal with it. Conflict can be arising between couples, peer, political government and coworkers. What is conflict? Conflict can be defined as a disagreement through which the parties involved perceive a threat to their needs. Conflict arises because of fighting over something with perceived value, ignorance or indifference to the other people’s needs and feeling, and misunderstanding.

  Firstly, fighting over something with perceived value can cause the conflict to arise. It can cause by fighting over boys or girls and career position. For example, workers do not satisfy with their position or salary in the company. They think they can get higher income and can have a higher position in the company. Sometimes, they might think they can have a higher position than the other coworkers because they have more experience than the others. There is only one possible position to them but all the workers want to have it. Therefore, conflict can arise fighting.

  Next, conflict can arise because of ignorance or indifference to the majority people’s needs and feelings. Sometimes, smoking in the room cause quarrel between roommates. Many people do not like the fames of smoke because it is unhealthy for everybody. They will not like the smell of smoke. So, people smoke inside the room that do not care of the other roommate feeling will cause the conflict to be happen. Another example is teammate do not want to participate in the project, he or she contribute the workload to the leader. The workload would feel no happy about that because he needs to do all the teammate’s work.

  Moreover, misunderstanding also other causes would cause the conflict to happen. White lies being discovered is the example of the conflict happen. People who tell white lies is because they do not want the people feel sad. So, they force to tell white lies to them but the people think they are being cheated. Misunderstanding will take place in this case. Misunderstanding will not occur if we think the other ways and that people’s point of view.

  In conclusion, we can reduce conflict happen by learning how to deal with it. Conflict will not happen when we have a discussion with another people. This is because we can reduce the conflict happen.